Saturday, July 24, 2010

Side effects

Side effects, side effects, I love you! I looked back through my posts to see how I did with our last FET. Turns out I was lucky in that I had no side effects from the meds. This time is not the same. Not only am I ultra emotional, see post below, I also am super tired, anxious, nauseated, lethargic at times and just feel yucky overall. Anyone else experience any of this while doing a FET? I am not even growing eggs for heavens sake! I called the nurse and she said everything was totally normal and my body was just adjusting to the estrogen pills. Well hurry up already! Maybe last time my body was a little more use to it because I had just gone through our IVF cycle where my E2 was over 7000 the day of retrieval. So it was like "shoot E2 rising, no problem. Been there done that."

This cycle is kicking my butt, and I don't like it one bit. I even told DH I don't think I could do it again. My body just hates me too much. I know that in the end it will be worth it when I hold that precious little baby in my arms, but when you have failed before it makes the end goal seem so far off. Truth be told I would do this 10x if I knew in the end it would result in a real live human baby, but there are no guarantees. Sure the statistics are on our side, but you never know which side of the statistic you will fall in.

Ok, ok, I am done being negative now. I know I will do it again if we still have embryos left, which is highly likely. On a good note my boss has been AMAZING! I have been working from home on afternoons when I have felt really crappy. Which is nice since I have no sick time left. He has told me to just take care of myself and be sure to get the rest I need. I am so grateful. DH has also been wonderful, as usual, and has been taking very good care of me. I am so thankful to have such a great partner to go through all of this with. I know I couldn't do it alone.

7 comments:

  1. I am so sorry the meds are kicking your butt - I hope you feel better soon and wishing you the best of luck with your FET!!!

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  2. So sorry things are not going so hot right now. It will all be worth it soon.

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  3. Boo, I'm so sorry you're having such a terrible time this FET! Praying that it will all be worth it very soon.

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  4. I hope all of those side effects mean good things in the end :). Hang in there - it won't last forever!

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  5. Sorry to hear you are feeling like this! Best of luck with this FET!
    I think the frustration is definitely what you have mentioned..if you knew that at the end of all of this you will be holding your own little baby or babies it will be all worth it! Get some rest and hang in there!

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  6. just found your blog so excuse the late comment, but estrace always makes me feel hungover! every single morning i feel like i drank a bottle of wine by myself, when in reality i haven't had a sip! ew. barf. i'm with ya sister. it will be all worth it when it works, right? ;)

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