I am so over all of this! It took 2 weeks for my old clinic to fax my medical records to our new clinic. Then they didn't send any of my OBGYN or DH's urologist stuff. I called to inquire, they can't fax anything over from other MD's. So I had to call our other MD's to request the records. Haven't been to either one since 2007, records are in storage, gonna take forever. My consult with new RE is next Friday. The new office said it really ins't a huge deal if they don't get the records before then... I am just over it all! The lady from the urologist office was so rude and just mean. I wanted to cry. This crap is hard enough, gosh, be a little kind.
We still don't have all the $$ saved and our surrogate has kind of mentioned that her hubby isn't willing to wait forever, ie more than 3 months, for us to get everything lined up. We were setting out for an August cycle, but I just don't know how that is going to happen. Not to mention my anxiety is back in full force and I can't deal with all of this!
Sorry for the rant. This is just where I am today.
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hugs coming your way :) a friend of mine also felt like surrogacy was how her family would be expanded and although many things have fallen into place, there are still some hurdles. amazing what we go through for our kids!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your honesty. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. ; (
ReplyDeleteSorry for all the stress you have going on right now. I hope it ends soon!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry it is all so frustrating and difficult!! Hang in there and I hope things line up for your upcoming surrogate cycle very, very soon.
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I'm so sorry, it's unnecessary added pressure in an already stressful, emotional situation. I was thankful to sit in on a conference call a couple of weeks ago where an RE discussed the 2nd opinion process (which I'm about to go through). He said it's pretty standard doctors will only release documents from their office, not those they received from other offices - good to know. Also that separate releases are needed for each party (husband & wife).
ReplyDeleteThe best piece of information I got out of it (and what he emphasized the most) is that your medical records belong to YOU. You have every right to request copies and receive them in suitable (legible) format.
Good luck!
Gosh its so frustrating, when I found out how hard it was to get medical records transferred, I just started collecting copies of my own, it's absolutely utterly ridiculus. I am so sorry, I hope tomorrow is a better day. xoxoxoxox
ReplyDeleteSo sorry you're dealing with so many challenges, it's understandable you're feeling frustrated and anxious. Thinking of you and sending hope that you find the strength and guidance to get through this time ((hugs))
ReplyDeleteWhy can't anything in this process be easy!! I hope you can do the surrogacy soon. I hope things fall into place. ((HUGS))
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